Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 8, 2003

Spousal Support



     Tangible things that help me ease some of the pains of being pregnant:
~ Peppermint Foot Lotion--Ahhhh! 
~ Any kind of lotion on my itchy belly!
~ Lots of pillows!
~ Ice cream!
~ FOOD! :)
~ Gym shoes--all the time!  (or slippers)

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I am blessed with such a wonderful husband.  I know I don't tell him that enough, but I am so thankful for him.  He takes such good care of me and is a wonderful provider.  He is very understanding of how difficult it is for me to do thing around the house when I am this pregnant, and he helps out a lot.       

One thing I am extremely thankful for in Jeremy is that he feels it is important for me to be home raising our children instead of working.  I never thought I would want to be a stay-at-home mom, but I could never ask for a more wonderful job!  I am lucky that Jeremy has a good job, and that we are able to "do without" some things so I don't have to work outside the home.     

While I was pregnant with Annah, we bought a house, knowing it would take my salary to make the mortgage payment each month.  Jeremy tried to remind me that I would not have the option of quitting my job to stay home with the baby if I wanted to, but I told him that I would never want to do that.  I thought I would get bored.  

When Annah was born, and I went back to work 9 weeks later, it was absolutely the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my entire life.  I could not stand leaving my tiny baby with someone else (although she was a good sitter, and we trusted her) who got to hold her and care for her all day long every day, while I had to go to work.   

I began hating and resenting my job (which I loved before), and would call Jeremy from my car on the way to work every morning crying.  I wanted to care for and raise my daughter myself!  But, we couldn't make enough monetary adjustments for me to quit my job--until we moved with Jeremy's career!  Thank the Lord; He provided a way!   

I am so very thankful to have the opportunity to spend every day with my girl (and soon another baby!) now!       

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I'm wondering if the doctor will be able to tell if the baby has turned when I go for my appointment tomorrow?  I hope so!


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"We never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves."    
~ Henry Ward Beecher
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Friday, July 12, 2002

Warnings

Some reactiosn to our pregnancy have been kind of funny. They feel the need to warn me that I am not going to have an "easy baby" like Annah this time. I do realize that all babies are not as even tempered as she was as an infant. She slept through the night at 3 1/2 weeks old, nursed like a champ, never cried, ate whatever we gave her the first time she tried it...etcetera. 

I am fully aware that this child may cry incessantly, not sleep much, not take to nursing, and be a general all-around challenge. But, I am also sure that it would not make me love the child any less! I am prepared to lose some sleep, and get a little frustrated. Isn't that all part of being a mommy?! You do whatever it takes to comfort your child. I know each child is different, and I look forward to getting to know the unique qualities of this child too.